These words may help you push through any New Year blues

Observations of a Middle-aged Dragon with a tattoo:  


Finding life TOUGH at the moment? 

These words may help to bring a little peace.

1.  EMBRACE alone time. Don’t avoid it. 


    2.  It’s the now that defines your future. Don’t dwell on the past. 


3.  Dont act like the world owes you. You create your reality.




4. Trust the journey (this is the “real” challenge). Don’t expect immediate results:      

5. Don’t waste energy on things you can’t control.


I’m not great at taking this advice either. I’m not going to say I’m “holier than thou” because I'm NOT. I’ve just done a lot of dumb stuff. But more often than not when I’m feeling down or stressed-out, I read these points and one invariably helps me.


I read them with a glass of wine or whatever is my want, and eventually I'm smiling and I have a plan or an idea to rise stronger tomorrow. 

SET yourself free, even if just for a little. Dare you to...


The mere mortal male and how they make us laugh or worse

Observations of a Middle-aged Dragon with a tattoo:  


Studying the mere mortal male and relationships the following 

brought a smile to my face. Maybe they will bring a smile to yours...

And they wonder, why we get frustrated...

And then... maybe it's dispair?

And for the last word

Laugh out loud, dare you to

Another New Year: Another list of 'how long will they last' 2019 resolutions

Observations of a Middle-aged Dragon with a tattoo:  


Can we make "OUR"   New Year resolutions last?

I don’t have answers and I don’t give advice. I have suggestions and hope to have you laugh and enjoy your day.  For me it’s more like this: 

Another New Year. 'Another bunch of the how long will they last' resolutions?

And as for 2019 resolutions:

Design your own life

Dont just desire it.

Throw caution to the wind, laugh and consider life: 

its yours after all..

BE YOU: Let yourself go 


   DREAM BIG: Whatever they are:

   SPEND Time with Yourself: 

When DISAPPOINTMENT raises its ugly head:

  FIND A WAY  to rise above other people's judgement:

Spend time with priceless people not cheap pretenders: Life's too short.

Devote time to these friends. Dare you to....